I am a polite person and a good listener.
And for this reason most men confuse my good manners to being interested.
It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, the first time I meet you I'll show attention to you. I'll switch off my mobile phone and listen to you.
But that DOESN'T mean I'm romantically interested. So when I say I am not interested in dating you, STOP FUCKING INSISTING!!!
And moreover, stop acting entitled. Just because I'm an overweight woman, that doesn't mean you're doing me a favour for asking me out. Don't bring it up as an insult when I politely refuse you. Because then all Hell breaks loose on your ass and you tell me I was leading you on.
Some men can be dicks.